Sexual desire is complex, deeply personal, and often misunderstood. In Come as You Are , Emily Nagoski explains that sexual desire is not simply “on” or “off” but a dynamic balance between what she calls sexual accelerators and sexual brakes. Understanding how these work can help individuals and couples navigate desire with greater compassion, reduce shame, and strengthen intimacy. Click on the photo to learn more about Emily's work. The Accelerator and Brake Metaphor Nagoski
Relationships are dynamic, and even the strongest couples face challenges that feel hard to navigate alone. At Trellis Therapy, we offer couples therapy intensives, immersive, focused sessions designed to help couples make meaningful progress in a shorter timeframe. What Is a Therapy Intensive? A couples therapy intensive is a concentrated therapeutic experience that allows couples to focus deeply on their relationship. Unlike traditional weekly therapy, intensives create spa